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Through 23 extraordinary interviews of hidden children, Jane Marks has skillfully
compiled a book about human miracles. Despite terrifying accounts of mortal danger and
unspeakable hardship during the war, and inordinate continuing difficulties after the war
-- economic deprivation, health complications and psychic scars -- we are witness to the
victorious mastery of childhood terror, separations, loss of loved ones, loss of identity,
trust and homeland. The reader can only join with Jane Marks who exults in the later
achievement of normal lives. And the reader unites with the survivors in the moving
revelations of how they became spouses -- with strong and enduring marriages -- parents
and grandparents, and of how they entered and succeeded in professions such as law,
medicine, social work, education, business and the creative and performing arts.
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This rare collection of interviews is essential reading for all who care to know how it
is possible to move beyond irreversible early trauma. It individualizes the Holocaust and
permits one to have more understanding of the child's perspective. The reader is riveted
and gripped by remarkable first-person narratives from those who as children endured and
survived concealment in convents, orphanages, Christian homes, basements and sewers. Some
were in hiding with their parents, others were placed with strangers, families or in
institutions. Still others, lost and separated from parents, existed alone, concealed in
forests, hay lofts and caves. Some joined resistance fighter groups, some were protected
by Christian rescuers and some were betrayed or exploited.
The final two chapters of this inspiring text are by Professor Nechama Tec and Dr. Eva
Fogelman. Here, the history of the eternal drama of parents trying to save their children
is explored, from the biblical Moses to the Jewish child in Nazi-occupied Europe, and the
psychology and life-long effects -- unto the next generation -- are examined academically
and experientially.
Despite the loss of childhood, the guilt of survival, the life-long anxiety and
fearfulness, the identity crisis -- in some cases the surrender of Jewishness -- the
adherence to silence and invisibility, these accounts reveal how mourning and healing are
possible.
Judith Marks Mishne, Ph.D. is Professor and Assistant Coordinator, Ph.D. Specialization in the Treatment of Children and Adolescents, School of Social Work, New
York University.
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