What to Tell Your Child About
Prejudice and Discrimination

Introduction
Learning Prejudice
Media Influence & Self-Image
Responding to Children
What Can Parents Do About Prejudice?

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Learning Prejudice

Despite the best efforts of many parents and teachers, children still learn prejudice and practice discrimination. How does this happen?

Discrimination:

When people act on the basis of their prejudices or stereotypes, they are discriminating. Discrimination may mean putting other people down, not allowing them to participate in activities, restricting their access to work or to live in certain neighborhoods, or denying them something they are entitled to by right and law.

Prejudice is learned through living in and observing a society where prejudices exist. Children's opinions are influenced by what the people around them think, do and say. Even if you, as a parent, are a model of tolerance, your children are still exposed to other people who may not respect differences.

A child may observe that some people won't associate with members of certain groups or that members of some groups rarely, if ever, occupy influential positions in the school or community. It does not escape children's notice that all of the U.S. presidents so far have been white and male. A child may overhear some people or groups put down by jokes. If no one addresses these instances of exclusion, a child may grow up thinking that this is the way it is supposed to be, and that people who have been discriminated against deserve this treatment because they are inferior in some way. This is why it is so important to address issues of prejudice and discrimination when and wherever they occur, to point out inequities, and to let children know such ideas and actions are unacceptable in a democratic society.

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