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Table Talk: Family Conversations About Current Events
For Parents, Families, and Caregivers | 10 and upElection years usually present rich opportunities for parents and educators to talk with young people about civics, the electoral process, how government works and politics. This presidential election year, however, has left many feeling hesitant about how to raise the topic and specifically, how to approach the negative and biased discourse that has characterized much of the current debate.
This presidential election campaign, more so than previous campaigns, has seen an unfortunate amount of hate-filled language, proposals based on biased assumptions and candidates bullying each other. Specifically, we have seen stereotyping of many groups including women and immigrants, threats to ban Muslims from living in the country and pronouncements that Islam “hates” America, mocking of disabled people, and political candidates attacking one another based on their physical appearance. There have been at least ten campaign events in which violence has taken place.
And quite naturally, this political demagoguery has had an impact on young people. Muslim children are expressing fear and sadness, some even asking their parents if they are going to have to leave the country after the election. At an Indiana high school basketball game, students erupted into screaming and insults; the predominately white team yelled at the opposing players and fans, who were a predominately Latino team, chanting “no comprende,” “speak English” and “build the wall” (referring to the proposal that a wall be built on the Mexican border to keep immigrants out). Latino and other immigrant children worry that they may be deported when there is a new president in the White House.
The Southern Poverty Law Center recently surveyed approximately 2,000 teachers, finding that this election campaign is having “a profoundly negative impact on schoolchildren across the country.” Specifically:
Regardless of political party, the current tone and discourse is counter to what many parents aspire to teach their kids about respect, diversity, bias, language, stereotyping and civil discourse. While parents and teachers may feel cautious about discussing the topic, it is important to talk about these issues so that young people, who see adults (including politicians) as role models, do not subconsciously integrate this thinking into their own. It can be, instead, a teachable moment.
10 and up
Have you noticed whether friends or classmates are mimicking some of what is being said from the campaign? How does that make you feel?
(The "Related to this Resource" and The Trump Effect: The Impact of the Presidential Campaign on Our Nation's Schools (Southern Poverty Law Center) provide information that address these questions.)
Ask: What can we do to help? What actions might make a difference?